In Matthew 19:14, we hear Jesus say, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Unfortunately, like the disciples to whom he spoke these words, the historical church has often adopted a rather rigid posture toward children. Yes, all churches wish to have children in their midst, but how to do that and what to actually do with them has proven to be the challenge. This is even more the case, now, in today’s modern world, where many kids (and their parents) already have great demands placed on their time.
In recent years this church has moved from a programatic approach to one which seeks to holistically welcome kids into every aspect of the congregational life; providing them the place, space, support, and opportunity to grow into the children of God they have been uniquely created to be has become a priority. We are deliberate in understanding ourselves to be a multi-generational family of faith and seek, as a our first priority, that every child feels welcomed, is heard as well as seen, is nurtured and appreciated, and develops not only a sense of belonging but also a sense of ownership and responsibility for the church. We believe this to be the most effective means of demonstrating and conveying the love God has for them; very Good News indeed.
We have glider rockers in the sanctuary for parents with infants, and nursing moms. There is usually a kid toddling around the sanctuary during worship, and we are thrilled to hear mewls, laughter, babble and, yes, even the cries and shrieks of little ones echoing in the sanctuary. Kids ring the bell every Sunday (and may do so anytime they wish, so says Rev. Mike). While we certainly endeavor to provide children appropriate boundaries, they are encouraged to roam within them. Activity bags/boxes are available to help keep kids engaged with their own attentiveness during worship. Saying “please’ and “thank you” are reinforced, as well as the difference between “Can I” and “May I.” Every adult in the congregation endeavors to learn the name of each child, and to use it when addressing them. On Communion Sundays kids return to the sanctuary from Church School so that we might be one body as we celebrate the Lord’s Supper. For our February Communion kids head straight to the kitchen upon arrival and join together to bake the bread we will use to celebrate the sacrament that day. Here on the Park, kids want to get up and go to church. The kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these, and so does this church.
